ActualitésSociété

Le choix du conjoint(e) : On en parle ?

Le choix des conjoint(e)s est un événement très important pour l’avenir d’un couple. Il se faisait au temps de nos grands-parents par les parents eux même en prenant soin de bien choisir la belle famille soit par affinité, soit par reconnaissance. Mais, la question est de savoir si les jeunes, aujourd’hui sont prêt à renouer avec cette tradition ancestrale? Est-ce finalement la solution pour éviter les guéguerres dans les couples,les séparations et les divorces ?

Notre journal s’est approché de quelques passant et a recueilli des informations dont il juge utile de partager avec vous.

Certains parents trouvent toujours judicieux l’application de ce système car selon eux, les jeunes ont du mal à faire un choix, et de surcroit le bon. C’est le cas de blaise un père de famille : « moi, si j’ai cette possibilité je le ferai… Ils ont du mal à faire un choix ».

D’autres parents par contre propose la négociation avec leurs enfants : « on doit négocier avec eux. On se contente de leurs éducations mais leurs choix nous importent peu » déclare Christophe un autre père de famille. On a aussi cherché à avoir l’avis des mamans sur le sujet. Grande a été notre surprise quand nous avions écouté l’intervention de maman
Thérèse : « je ne peux pas faire un choix et imposer à mon enfant. ».

Mais que disent les jeunes qui sont les plus concernés dans cette histoire ?
Jean un jeune de la vingtaine, affirme que son choix n’engage que lui-même, car lui seul définit les critères de ce choix : « je ne peux pas épouser une femme dont j’ignore ses sentiments, ses mœurs, son attitude et ses pensées ou ses avis sur les choses ». Nadaa vient l’épauler en ces termes : « Mes parents ne sauront pas forcément ce que je recherche ».

Google 1

Ces jeunes sont donc convaincus que peut importe leurs choix, ils sauront mieux s’y adapter et faire face aux problèmes en cas de survenu.

D’autres jeunes de leurs âges ne sont pas du même avis.
Diane préconise le mariage arrangé, puisque selon elle les parents sont les seuls qui disposent de l’expérience nécessaire pour ce choix. Noëlle la suit avec cette déclaration : « je vais accepter le choix de mes parents. Ils me connaissent très bien et savent ce que j’aime. Je doute fort qu’ils me fassent un mauvais choix »

En bref le sujet pose une problématique, qui jusqu’alors n’est pas résolu.
Et toi jeune… qu’en penses-tu ?

Geneviève

TOGONYIGBA

Lomé-Amadanhomé (Togo) | RCCM:TG-LOM 2018 A 5677 | N° Récépissé:0425/24/03/11/HAAC | Banque:Orabank / Numéro de Compte:06101-65386500501-49 (agence kpalimé) | Courriel:togonyigba@gmail.com | Boîte postale:23BP90053539 Lomé Apédokoè | Tel:(00228) 99460630/93921010 | Directeur Général : José-Éric Kodjo GAGLI (LeDivin)

Articles similaires

21 016 commentaires

  1. Ainsi, animés par l’envie de partager leur
    savoir, ils n’hésiteront pas à vous fournir des conseils et des astuces de professionnels pour bien entretenir vos volets roulants et éviter les pannes fréquentes.

  2. My programmer is trying to convince me to move to .net from PHP.
    I have always disliked the idea because of the costs.
    But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using WordPress on various websites for about a
    year and am worried about switching to another platform.
    I have heard great things about blogengine.net. Is there a way I can transfer all my
    wordpress posts into it? Any help would be greatly appreciated!

  3. The most widespread regulation is prohibition oof sale too minors, and vendors need to be licensed to sell lottery tickets.

    Feel free to visit my blog post Jackpot

  4. An interesting discussion is definitely worth comment.
    I do think that you should write more about this subject matter, it may not
    be a taboo matter but usually people don’t speak about such issues.
    To the next! Kind regards!!

  5. After looking into a number of the blog articles on your website,
    I honestly appreciate your technique of blogging.
    I book-marked it to my bookmark website list and will be checking back in the near future.
    Take a look at my web site too and tell me what you think.

  6. Hello there, just became aware of your blog through Google, and found that it is truly informative.
    I’m gonna watch out for brussels. I’ll be grateful if you
    continue this in future. Lots of people will be benefited from your writing.
    Cheers!

  7. Its like you read my mind! You appear to know so much about this, like you wrote the book
    in it or something. I think that you can do with a few pics to drive the message home a little bit,
    but instead of that, this is fantastic blog. A great read.
    I will certainly be back.

  8. What’s up to all, how is everything, I think every one is getting more from this website,
    and your views are fastidious for new people.

  9. Excellent website you have here but I was curious about if you knew of any discussion boards that cover the same topics talked about here?
    I’d really love to be a part of group where I can get comments from other knowledgeable individuals that share the same interest.

    If you have any suggestions, please let me know. Appreciate it!

  10. Howdy just wanted to give you a quick heads up.
    The text in your post seem to be running off the screen in Firefox.
    I’m not sure if this is a formatting issue or something to do with browser compatibility but
    I figured I’d post to let you know. The design and style
    look great though! Hope you get the problem solved soon. Thanks

  11. Great рost! We will Ƅe linking to this great post on our site.
    Keeep up the ɡood writing.

  12. I read this paragraph fully on the topic of the resemblance of most up-to-date and earlier
    technologies, it’s awesome article.

  13. Pretty element of content. I simply stumbled upon your blog and in accession capital to say
    that I acquire actually enjoyed account your blog posts.
    Anyway I will be subscribing for your augment
    or even I achievement you access persistently rapidly.

  14. Hi there! I just wanted to ask if you ever have any issues with hackers?

    My last blog (wordpress) was hacked and I ended up losing a few months of hard work due to no backup.

    Do you have any solutions to protect against hackers?

  15. Today, while I was at work, my cousin stole my iPad and tested
    to see if it can survive a 30 foot drop, just so she can be
    a youtube sensation. My iPad is now broken and she has 83 views.
    I know this is completely off topic but I had to share it with someone!

  16. Nice post. I used to be checking continuously this blog and I’m impressed!
    Very useful info particularly the ultimate phase
    🙂 I care for such information much. I was looking for this certain information for a very long time.
    Thank you and best of luck.

  17. Greate pieces. Keep posting such kind of info on your site.
    Im really impressed by it.
    Hey there, You have performed a fantastic job. I will definitely digg it and for my part suggest to my friends.
    I’m confident they will be benefited from this site.

  18. Hey! I’m at work surfing around your blog from my new iphone!
    Just wanted to say I love reading your blog
    and look forward to all your posts! Carry on the great work!

    Here is my homepage – webpage

  19. Heya i am for the first time here. I found this
    board and I in finding It truly useful & it helped me out a lot.
    I’m hoping to offer something back and aid others like you
    aided me.

  20. Thanks for the concepts you are sharing on this blog. Another thing I would like to say is getting hold of some copies of your credit file in order to inspect accuracy of each and every detail may be the first measures you have to accomplish in credit restoration. You are looking to clear your credit report from harmful details faults that wreck your credit score.

  21. Admiring the time and energy you put into your
    site and in depth information you offer. It’s nice to
    come across a blog every once in a while that isn’t the same outdated rehashed material.
    Excellent read! I’ve saved your site and I’m including your RSS
    feeds to my Google account.

  22. Attractive part of content. I simply stumbled
    upon your web site and in accession capital to assert that I
    get actually enjoyed account your blog posts.
    Anyway I will be subscribing in your feeds or even I achievement you get right of entry to constantly quickly.

  23. Nous possédons en effet des formations et les matériaux nécessaires pour effectuer
    toutes les interventions adéquates.

  24. Wonderful blog! Do you have any recommendations for aspiring writers?
    I’m planning to start my own blog soon but I’m a little lost on everything.
    Would you advise starting with a free platform like WordPress
    or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m completely overwhelmed ..
    Any recommendations? Thanks a lot!

  25. At this time I am going to do my breakfast, afterward having my breakfast coming again to read additional
    news.

  26. Hi are using WordPress for your site platform?
    I’m new to the blog world but I’m trying to get started
    and set up my own. Do you require any coding knowledge to make your own blog?

    Any help would be really appreciated!

  27. I ѕеriously loѵe your sitе.. Very nice colors & theme.
    Ɗid you develop this amaszing site yourѕelf? Please reply back as I’mhoping to create my own personal site and wannt
    to find out where ʏou got this from or what the theme іs called.
    Thanks!

  28. Good post however I was wanting to know if you could write a litte more on this topic?
    I’d be very grateful if you could elaborate a little
    bit further. Cheers!

  29. wonderful issues altogether, you just gained a emblem new reader.
    What would you recommend in regards to your submit that you
    simply made a few days in the past? Any positive?

    Here is my web site ::

  30. I used to be recommended this web site by way of my cousin.
    I’m not positive whether this put up is written by way of him as nobody else recognise
    such designated about my difficulty. You’re incredible!
    Thank you!

  31. I am sure this post has touched all the internet people, its really really fastidious piece of writing on building up new website.

  32. I do agree with all of the ideas you have introduced
    on your post. They are really convincing and will definitely work.
    Nonetheless, the posts are very quick for novices.

    May you please prolong them a little from next time?
    Thank you for the post.

  33. Having read this I believed it was really enlightening.

    I appreciate you taking the time and energy to put this
    information together. I once again find myself personally
    spending a lot of time both reading and leaving comments.
    But so what, it was still worth it!

Bouton retour en haut de la page

Adblock détecté

S'il vous plaît envisager de nous soutenir en désactivant votre bloqueur de publicité